What it means to be a Gen Y leader

by Rebecca Thorman on July 3036 Comments

This post was originally published at Employee Evolution.
Update: You can also find the post at The Industry Radar.

It’s a myth that the workplace is turning into one big leaderless state. Just as decisions made by committee often require head banging, life without leaders would be one big headache. Yes, leadership has changed and decentralized organizations are here to stay, but there will always be leaders. We want success. We want to win, and winners have leaders.

Once you’ve tossed aside the crutch of hierarchical authority though, “knowing how to build relationships, use influence and work with others is crucial to achieving the results you seek,” according to Valeria Maltoni, a specialist in connecting ideas and people.

A Generation Y leader inspires by enabling others to be leaders. They know the strengths of those they lead, and exploit those for the success of that person. A Gen-Y leader delegates to help the worker achieve their goals. They are motivated by relationships and have an obsession with seeing others succeed.

By making room for other leaders, “you attract people who aren’t followers, who aren’t looking for the kind of leader who will save them from the anxiety of responsibility,” according to Michael S. Hopkins. And the millennial generation does not follow.

Instead, we create our own content, build our own businesses, do things our way. Be an entrepreneur or die, says Sam Davidson at Cool People Care. For the Gen-Y leader, it isn’t about ego, but about sharing ownership and building a community of ideas. An effective Gen-Y leader helps our generation to embrace entrepreneurship at every level.

A Gen-Y leader is inclusive and collaborative, and not just within their sphere of influence. An isolated organization will perish. Successful organizations are defining themselves as the gateway expert in their field. On the playing field, in this instance, companies must pick the competitor to be a part of their team for bigger and better results. It’s not enough to have a quality product; you must reach out and promote others. Teamwork is no longer just within a company. It’s industry-wide.

As a result, lines haven’t just been blurred; they’ve been pulverized on high in a blender. Competitors are partners, work is play, and boundaries no longer exist. As such, Gen-Y leaders must be leaders by example, and in every aspect of their life, whether family, work, or play.

Generation Y leaders, however, can and will be easily replaced by their peers. We are a starfish generation. Go ahead and try to chop one of us down, and we’ll grow a whole sprawling forest in that person’s place. We’re that strong. We’re that motivated. We don’t respond lightly to pressure or corruption.

A Gen-Y leader’s efforts to maintain influence will be harder for that reason. Especially because it is often our peers doing the chopping. As a generation, we’re remarkably good at calling bull. We have no qualms about holding our leaders up to the light to check for transparency.

Gen-Y leaders then must know themselves first, and project their authenticity. They must also be constantly learning, experiencing, doing, networking, creating, giving. It won’t stop. Our generation won’t put up with selfish thoughts, unethical behavior, or tired ideas. The Gen-Y leader must be constantly on.

That’s how we will become the next great generation. We won’t stop.

Change is in the air; inhale deeply.

The dynamic leadership requirements for Gen Y are causing Masters in Public Administration, MBA and other education degrees to put an extra emphasis on leadership. 

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  • http://toecgwood.blogspot.com/ Torchwood

    “As a result, lines haven’t just been blurred; they’ve been pulverized on high in a blender. Competitors are partners, work is play, and boundaries no longer exist. As such, Gen-Y leaders must be leaders by example, and in every aspect of their life, whether family, work, or play.”/em>

    I guess this is true of the old pubs (bars) in Britain, where breweries owned the Public Houses and only served their beer.

    Nowdays ‘most’ pubs and bars sell a variety of beers, and not even Coke or Pepsi can demand exclusivity (though of course they try). And exg manufacturer has a wider range of products.

    And the same with car showrooms & Services, before it would strictly hierarchical from the manufacturer down to the customer. But with more manufacturers ‘smaller’ coming on the market from Malaysia, korea – different car dealers now hold an assortment of manufacturers.

    Mind you in food & clothing, retail branding are still fiercely competitive – though ultimately the large Malls invite customers to empty their pockets or hit their credit cards in whichever one of the 1001 boutiques or establishments.

    More is achieved by collaboration (co-ops) than by cut throat competition, though when the chips are down it is still every man (or firm) for himself – lol!

  • http://toecgwood.blogspot.com/ Torchwood

    oops forgot to close after quote

  • http://www.conversationagent.com Valeria Maltoni

    What a thought-provoking post, Rebecca. And with a call to action built in.

    Your words remind me of our aspirations growing up. In the intellectual school I attended in Italy we did challenge ourselves to become greater than ‘self’ and ultimately to be first among equals (primus inter pares).

    As for a guide in the leadership done right, I recommend Peter Block’s “The Answer to How is Yes”.

  • http://modite.com/blog Rebecca Thorman

    @Torchwood: Those are good examples. I was also thinking about how car manufacturers would provide the competitor’s car for a test drive next to theirs, or a chip manufacturer will do taste tests. Also, at our nonprofit, we have to work with “the competition” in order to appropriately serve the needy in our community. Musicians will do joint tours. Etc. Examples are endless and will only become more pronounced in my opinion. I think it’s a recognition that we, and companies, have certain skills and talents and to use those to the best of our ability instead of trying to be everything to everyone.
    @ Valeria: Thank you. I like the saying “first among equals.” I’ll look into the book. Is there anything you’ve done that has served you well as a leader?

  • http://www.homesinmadison.com Josh Lavik

    Do you think that it’s a good idea to lump people together into these categories of gen x or y or millennial, or whatever other social class that “appears” to exist??? For example, you say, “A Generation Y leader inspires by enabling others to be leaders.” But couldn’t a baby boomer inspire just as well? Or how about a Gen X? To say that these traits are only of Gen Y I don’t think is a good solution or recommendation for the future. Why do I have to be a part of a certain “generation” in order to think or act a certain way?

  • http://modite.com/blog Rebecca Thorman

    @ Josh: I think that people lump themselves into categories. If you’re a realtor, you identify with realtors and feel pride being part of that group. Likewise, as part of the millennial generation, I feel pride and identify with Gen Y. However, that doesn’t mean that leadership skills cannot be transferable to other generations. And I don’t believe these traits are exclusive to Gen Y. However, I do think that taken together they complete a comprehensive picture of what it means to be a Gen Y leader as opposed to a different generation. Each group has unique challenges we face and leaders must respond accordingly.

    On the flip side, Penelope Trunk has suggested that we should not divide generations by birth date, but merely what technology we use. I don’t agree with this, but it does provide another take on “thinking or acting in a certain way.”

    As always, thank you for your differing perspective. Do you think that just by dividing by generational lines is dangerous in the workplace or by discussing our differences and similarities we can work more productively?

  • http://www.conversationagent.com Valeria Maltoni

    Rebecca:

    That is a question that requires a more thoughtful response than I can provide at the moment. I can offer that letting others inform my thinking and being in learning mode have definitely benefited me.

  • http://www.homesinmadison.com Josh Lavik

    @Rebecca: I just think that it’s dangerous to get too wrapped up in labels and stereotypes. Obviously stereotypes exist for a reason, they stem from truth somewhere. Often once these stereotypes are established it is often difficult to change people perspectives. For example, let’s say a company hired a 20-something to perform a job with the understanding that they would operate in a certain way. I can think of numerous examples where I might act one way, but someone also my age (ie generation) might act in the exact opposite way. When giving advice to this “next generation” of leaders I think it would be prudent to focus on the types of skills (regardless of age or generation) that do increase productivity and contribute value, rather than just focusing on generational differences.

  • http://modite.com/blog Rebecca Thorman

    @ Josh: I absolutely agree it is dangerous to get wrapped up in labels. And I think you make a good point about perpetuating a myth that people will perform a certain way.

    I will say, however, that I do think the skills I have outlined in my post “do increase productivity and contribute value regardless of age or generation”, but that they are more prevalent in Generation Y. I think it’s good to be conscious of what the trends are, so that if you are in the group that leads by these attributes you know how to fully leverage them to your success, and if you aren’t, then you know why, and you’re able to fully leverage your own strengths and abilities for success. Awareness is a good thing. I will have to be more cognizant of how I am presenting things though. I certainly do not want to perpetuate stereotypes.

  • http://www.recruitingbloggers.com Recruiting Animal

    I love it that you give so many concrete examples. Uh-oh! You are now entering the RecruitingBloggers rogues gallery of Gen Y hucksters.

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  • http://flowingmotion.wordpress.com Jo

    Thanks Rebecca.

    Is this what you want them to be or what they are?

    Gen Y are now managing – other Gen Y and other generations?

    How good are they are growing from being individual performers to people who respect differences and build up other people, including people older than themselves?

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  • http://gusellainsurance.blogspot.com Kerda

    Great work.

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