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	<title>Comments on: Starting over in the same city</title>
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		<title>By: Marta</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2788</link>
		<dc:creator>Marta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 00:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great story-- interesting life! Thanks for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great story&#8211; interesting life! Thanks for sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: How to manage your career &#124; Modite</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2787</link>
		<dc:creator>How to manage your career &#124; Modite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:15:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] long before we exchanged emails, long before we talked on the phone. And by the time Ryan and I met in person, everyone else around us disappeared, and I could only see him. Admittedly, he stands head and [...] </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] long before we exchanged emails, long before we talked on the phone. And by the time Ryan and I met in person, everyone else around us disappeared, and I could only see him. Admittedly, he stands head and [...]</p>
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		<title>By: 3 ways to turn weaknesses into strengths &#124; Modite</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2786</link>
		<dc:creator>3 ways to turn weaknesses into strengths &#124; Modite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 01:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] don’t know what possessed me to think I could speak publicly in front of the guy that I had liked since the moment we had met, but it was awful. I was sweating. I was hot. And then cold. And I couldn’t even look at him. I [...] </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] don’t know what possessed me to think I could speak publicly in front of the guy that I had liked since the moment we had met, but it was awful. I was sweating. I was hot. And then cold. And I couldn’t even look at him. I [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Natalie</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2785</link>
		<dc:creator>Natalie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 19:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;when men are in my life, it engulfs me. And when men aren’t in my life, I rise up like a balloon that was being held to the ground and is finally being let go.&quot;

I am the same way with men!  The exact same way.  I make all these grand plans based on what I really want in life (I want to live in city x, have career y, no kids, etc) and it goes right out the window when I fall in love with a guy who wants the opposite.  Then we finally part ways, the haze clears, and I&#039;m back to my self again.

I&#039;m also an ENFP :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;when men are in my life, it engulfs me. And when men aren’t in my life, I rise up like a balloon that was being held to the ground and is finally being let go.&#8221;</p>
<p>I am the same way with men!  The exact same way.  I make all these grand plans based on what I really want in life (I want to live in city x, have career y, no kids, etc) and it goes right out the window when I fall in love with a guy who wants the opposite.  Then we finally part ways, the haze clears, and I&#8217;m back to my self again.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m also an ENFP :)</p>
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		<title>By: ‘Don’t burn bridges’ is bad career advice &#124; Modite</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2784</link>
		<dc:creator>‘Don’t burn bridges’ is bad career advice &#124; Modite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 01:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] People burn bridges when they don’t like their jobs and their bosses. Or work with totally lame people or are completely bored. So you get fired, or laid off, or there comes a time when your job just isn’t what it used to be so you leave. [...] </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] People burn bridges when they don’t like their jobs and their bosses. Or work with totally lame people or are completely bored. So you get fired, or laid off, or there comes a time when your job just isn’t what it used to be so you leave. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: The Pumpernickel</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2783</link>
		<dc:creator>The Pumpernickel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 17:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is such a beautiful post.  And yes, transition periods do suck.  So bad.  

It&#039;s all about playing those happy songs on repeat.  Eventually we start singing them in our head and before we know it, we&#039;ve transitioned.

That&#039;s my plan, anyway.  Here&#039;s hoping.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such a beautiful post.  And yes, transition periods do suck.  So bad.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s all about playing those happy songs on repeat.  Eventually we start singing them in our head and before we know it, we&#8217;ve transitioned.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s my plan, anyway.  Here&#8217;s hoping.</p>
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		<title>By: Modite - Why Gen Y should talk about politics at work</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2782</link>
		<dc:creator>Modite - Why Gen Y should talk about politics at work</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 03:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] recently, Maria Antonia and I had planned to go to a local political fundraiser, and at the last minute she cancelled. Her [...] </description>
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		<title>By: Robert Merrill</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2781</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Merrill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 16:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*scream...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*scream&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Merrill</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2780</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Merrill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 16:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing. 

I say do what&#039;s most risky... smile and scram and wave your hands in the air the whole time.  In 60 years, the stories you tell will be that much more fun  (though you hopefully won&#039;t wait that long to blog again)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing. </p>
<p>I say do what&#8217;s most risky&#8230; smile and scram and wave your hands in the air the whole time.  In 60 years, the stories you tell will be that much more fun  (though you hopefully won&#8217;t wait that long to blog again)</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Hutchinson</title>
		<link>http://kontrary.com/2008/07/28/starting-over-in-the-same-city/#comment-2779</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate Hutchinson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 23:15:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So happy you&#039;re back!  I missed you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So happy you&#8217;re back!  I missed you!</p>
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