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Agree & Disagree Links for 04-27-09

Catching up from last week…

AGREE: Today EVERYONE is an influencer, @missrogue

AGREE: When it comes to your success, you should be seeking out the smartest, most well connected people you can find, @angela_gmb

AGREE: I love when people talk about “grouping” in Tweetdeck. What they are really saying is let me follow everyone under the sun but ignore everyone except a small group that I interact with daily. Not an authentic way to use Twitter, @richrecruiter (see comments)

STILL DECIDING: The Millennials, as a generation, will NOT be deep thinkers, @dsohigian

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Agree & Disagree Links for 04-15-09

AGREE: I see a sale to a company that didn’t understand how they could best use the product and the acknowledgment on the part of the founders that their baby was dying, @beermann

AGREE: Ask yourself this: If I’m not good enough now, when will I ever be?, @TransitionalTee

AGREE: If I read your blog, follow you on Twitter, am friends with you on Facebook, etc., after a while, I feel like I kind of just know you and it’s possible that I forget that, uh, you don’t know me AT ALL, @jer979

AGREE: The people who are shitting themselves in the comments and unsubscribing must be perfect themselves, as they only seem to want to read posts or advice from a perfect person, @philantrhopissd

STILL DECIDING: How can updating my Facebook status be more socially-responsible than sitting down to read the New York Times? But it WILL be this and more, @daveatkins

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Community Engagement Generation Y Place

Will Gen Y ruin local community?

The recession has changed everything for Gen Y. While we continue to embrace idealism, meaningful change is much harder.

And while young people have the best intentions to be part of the communities we live in, we’re being challenged by a number of conflicting events that contribute to a lack of involvement in local community.

For starters, disillusionment towards faith and religion has forced the institution to turn its reign over to Facebook as chief community builder. And despite the fact that our social circles are shrinking and loneliness is increasing, we choose where we live, in part, by how easy it is for us to maintain our quasi-anonymity.

Our friends “move in the same circles we do and are exposed to the same information. To get new information we have to activate our weak ties,” Albert-Laszlo Barabasi explains in his book Linked (via Valeria Maltoni).

So all of our Facebook and Twitter friends (those weak ties) are actually “critical to the creative environment of a city” sociologist Richard Florida reports, “because they allow for rapid entry of new people and rapid absorption of new ideas.”

Life and community, my friends, just isn’t the same. And nowhere is this so obvious, in-your-face and damning than the current alarm of the real estate market.

Before the economy collapsed, young people were being locked out of the housing market by astronomical housing prices and by our predecessors, Generation X and the Baby Boomers, who grew even richer.

Now that the housing market has collapsed, it means more young people are content with not owning a home. But as the prevailing American sentiment goes, if you don’t own something, you don’t have a stake in the future of our country. Young people don’t buy that. Literally.

Ownership is an antiquated belief belonging to another generation. Gen Y abandons ownership. Instead, today’s young people subscribe to a culture of services and leasing.

We subscribe to services that allow our lives to be easier – Peapod, Mint, Netflix, Pandora, Alice, and ZipCar to name a few. More and more individuals do this in order to pay less, acquire more, and change whenever the desire hits.

“Owning a car used to be the key to freedom,” one millennial marketer argues. “But now younger generations are seeing car ownership as a liability that ties them down.”

And being tied down is the last thing the transient Gen Yer wants. “Owning a home also ties workers down,” NY Times columnist Paul Krugman reports. “Even in the best of times, the costs and hassle of selling one home and buying another — one estimate put the average cost of a house move at more than $60,000 — tend to make workers reluctant to go where the jobs are.”

That’s cool with Gen Y because we plan to move in a month or two for that tech job, relish inner-city downtown life, or can’t see the sense in purchasing a home when we’re going overseas in June to work at a NGO anyway.

“Houses simply do not fit in very well with the demands for flexibility, mobility and continuous innovation in the creative economy,” Florida reports. “They cost a lot and suck up a ton of capital.  They are energy sinks and most people and families don’t use or need all that space.  They’re environmental disasters.  There is a growing body of economics research which suggests home ownership is associated with lower rates of productivity, lower incomes, and higher rates of unemployment.”

Gen Y will certainly grow up at some point, make commitments, have a family and settle down – indeed, research shows that is our every intention. But we are doing so at a later age, and by then, it may be too late and the world too different for local community to thrive.

Changing quarters.

What do you think? Will the housing crisis and Gen Y’s attitude towards ownership change community forever? And if you don’t own a home and aren’t connected to any particular institution, will you have any reason to contribute to the local community? Does it matter?

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Agree & Disagree Links for 04-13-09

AGREE: To get new information we have to activate our weak ties. The weak ties … obtain their information from different sources than our immediate friends, @ConversationAge

DISAGREE: Why would you build the framework of a social network into your site when many free (and already populated) options exist? (see comments), @StuartCFoster via @ConversationAge

AGREE: New career directions are tethered less to the dream of an immediate six-figure paycheck on Wall Street, @nytimes

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Agree & Disagree Links for 04-10-09

Lots of good links to catch up on for the weekend.

AGREE: Just because everyone knows how to play baseball doesn’t mean you draft them to the major leauges, @garyvee

AGREE: Writing to your government is sexy, @mckinneyos 

DISAGREE: TV is probably one of the most powerful ways of getting that message out there, Chief Marketer

DISAGREE: There is only one way that we measure our own personal brands: through how we stack up to competitors, @monicaobrien

AGREE: I wonder if I don’t subconsciously sabotage myself, @20orsomething

AGREE: Domino’s slip up was just an unintended marketing expense, Chief Marketer

AGREE: It’s scary. And, it’s pathetic. Sometimes, NPOs act like doing business is a dirty word, @writerbabe

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Building Character…

A weekly round-up of my other two blogs, modite / character blog (design, art and culture) and the Alice blog (quirky and practical advice for your life and home)…

If green is so good, why is it so confusing?

It’s swimsuit season.

Cold versus hot.

How to frame your artwork.

Backpacks are ugly. Except for this one.

I have a light a lot like this.

And I used to have dreams a lot like this.

This is how I feel.

Duty calls.

And I get by with a little help from my friends.

Find much more on Alice and modite /character. Thank you!

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Commenting Policy

For most bloggers, a comment is like gold. Except when it’s a big steaming nugget of crap.

Here’s what’s not allowed:

1. Personal Attacks on Me or Other Commenters. For example:

Your article is sickening and feminist bastards like you should be shunned whenever possible.

You seem to be speaking out of your ass.

You’re such a fucking stupid bitch. I hope you catch pneumonia and die.

Nice, eh? Don’t post anything obscene, vulgar, sexually explicit, illegal, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, humiliating, defamatory, libelous, invasive of someone else’s privacy, or objectionable. Be respectful of other people’s opinions and we can all get along.

2. Off-Topic Comments or Spam.
Keep your comment related to the subject matter of the post. If you want to talk about something else, email me.

I reserve the right to amend this policy at any time and it is in my sole discretion what content is offensive and whether I remove it. Why? It’s my blog. I know, life is unfair.

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I get by with a little help from my friends

And by friends, I mean books. Okay, people too. My friend Grace Boyle featured my books in her fabulous inspiration series.

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Career Finding a job Generation Y Videos

Generation Y doesn’t need a reference

This post contains video. If you’re reading via email or RSS, please click through.

This video is a response to the comments I received on my post, ‘Don’t Burn Bridges’ is Bad Career Advice, that was also featured on Brazen Careerist.

One frequent comment talked about the idea that you will someday need a reference from a previous employer to get a job. I argue that you may not need that type of reference, especially for “cool jobs.”

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Agree & Disagree Links for 04-07-09

AGREE: Do I want to work in an environment where self-expression is frowned upon, where I am judged for something so trivial? No.

DISAGREE: You may not even need “social media marketing.”

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Blogging Personal branding

A plug for the blogosphere I love

I’m exhausted. I worked eleven hours today. And it wasn’t the work, but the emotional excitement and fatigue that comes with ideas and the wherewithal to execute on them.

I’m exhausted from putting myself out there and taking risks and worrying too much that I’m not doing the right things. I’m exhausted from working the entire weekend. I’m exhausted from missing my friends.

The last thing I want to do is write a blog post. But I made a promise to a fellow blogger. I made a promise to Dan Schawbel, author of Personal Branding Blog, and one of my first friends in the blogosphere. It’s appropriate that I made this promise to Dan because he is one of the hardest workers I know. And what I’ve been pushing myself to do the last few months, he has been doing much longer.

I met Dan in person when I was in Boston late last year, and he is a character. This doesn’t always come through in his blog, much to my dismay, because he is a great character. But Dan is masterful at crafting and presenting his own personal brand – a testament to his expertise on writing a blog on the same topic.

When you are done reading this post, Dan’s book will be out on Amazon. It’s called Me 2.0: Build a Powerful Brand to Achieve Career Success. And you should go buy it.

It’s the type of book I wish I had in college – I would have devoured every word. It’s the kind of book I wanted when I graduated and was lost and confused. It’s the kind of book I read now and still learn from.

But you should also buy it because Dan has been the type of person to say hi to me on gchat for no reason. He is the type of person to be ever-so-complimentary, even when he disagrees with me. He’s the type of person who will help without asking, who is innocent to drama, who believes in what he does more than the majority of people I know.

He is the type of person that – after so much work and dedication – deserves to succeed.

Here’s to your success, Dan. I hope everyone buys your book.

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Art & Photography Character

How I feel

There’s a big thing with Ryan and I on the fact that he’s an INTJ and I’m an ENFP. The personality people say we’re compatible. The differences, in short, are that he says “I think,” and I say, “I feel.”

Photo by Anna Wolf via Blanket.